Thursday, December 13, 2018

Simple Ways to Connect with Your Kids

It's strange, I think, how "connected" we are these days, while we're actually making fewer and fewer real connections.  

We sometimes text more than we hear the voices of the people we're texting.  Most families don't sit down all together even once during the day.  With varying personalities, the din and distraction of social media, and days scheduled to the max, it can be difficult to feel like you're really connecting with your kids.  

So today I'm excited to share with you some simple ways to connect.


I'm pleased to bring you three articles I wrote that will help get some ideas flowing about connection.  

Read all three articles or just choose one that sounds particularly interesting to you.  Here's an overview of each, including the links.  As you read, look for ways to use the information and inspiration there to better connect with your kids.

In {The Power of Place and Family Traditions}, you'll learn about the strength of home, of "happy places," and of belonging.  
  • If you haven't heard the amazing story of Bobbie the Wonder Dog, you can read about it there and appreciate the pull of home.  
  • There's also an outside-the-box idea of creating a neat family tradition with the photos of your family traditions (holidays, birthdays, vacations, etc.)!


In {Building Bridges between Generations using Photos and Memories} you'll learn about the power of looking to the past to strengthen families now.  
  • "Bridges built between generations are not built by accident."  Photos and memories are an easy way to connect generations, to help children (or you!) know grandparents and great-grandparents better, which fosters a deep sense of belonging and connection.  
  • "Here's why the past is infinitely important to me:  My grandparents lived there.  I learned lessons there.  I fell in love, got married, and had babies there."  Connecting generations with stories and photos is great for you, and but it's an especially fantastic way to connect with your kids, too.


By the way, did you know that kids who know family stories have higher self-esteem, greater resilience, and a better ability to cope with life's problems?  It's true!  (Bruce Feiler's studies on family stories, alluded to in the previous article, are found {here}.)


In {Why Taking Photos is So Important--And What to Do With Them} you'll read some first-hand examples of what photos really mean to our hearts.  
  • Photos are more important than most people realize, but that's really only the case if we SEE our photos.  You'll find several ways to be able to see--not just store--your digital photos so that they can be a powerful way for connecting family members.  
  • Kids need the validation that comes from telling their stories and preserving their photos.  Gifting that to them creates connections, too.

These are fairly simple ways to connect, using things you already have--photos and stories--but the impact these simple things have on kids and relationships is powerful and long-lasting!


What did you find in these articles that you can use to connect with your kids?  What changes your thinking or gives you a new perspective?  Tell me your thoughts in the comments--I'd love to hear them!

Get started with these tangible, heartfelt, meaningful ideas for connecting with your kids {here}.

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8 comments:

  1. Love the discussion of the power of places! I grew up in the same city my dad's parents moved to before he was born and lived for more than 50 years, so we have years of family history there. I have been thinking I need to record it along with addresses so my kids can go back years from now without me and know what the significant and memorable places were for the 3 generations that have lived there.

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  2. I loved the power of places thought, too. I'm glad you did. And for good reason--I love that you grew up where your dad did. That's really neat. I LOVE your idea of recording the significance of places with addresses so that it's "out there" for the rest of your family to use. There really is something special about a place. Thanks for stopping by and for the comment. :)

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  3. Jennifer, I love idea of building bridges with connections across generations through photographs and cherished memories. I frequently engage in heartfelt conversations with my children about my grandparents, and it warms my heart to witness their genuine affection for the stories and memories I continue to treasure. Your post was wonderful, and the opportunity to revisit the three articles was an absolute delight. Thank you for sharing with us at The Crazy Little Lovebirds link party #25.

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    1. I'm so glad you do that, Stephanie. It means so much to your children, I'm sure, and will just keep strengthening them as they get older. It really is a beautiful way to connect generations. And such a heartwarming way for US to reminisce, particularly about those loved ones whom we miss. I appreciate your kind words and am so glad you enjoyed this article and the other three so much. Thank you very much for sharing your thoughts here with us!

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  4. These are such wonderful memory making ideas and ways to save them.
    Thanks bunches for sharing this with Sweet Tea & Friends this month Jen.

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    1. I'm so glad you enjoyed them, Paula! Happy you stopped by.

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  5. These are lovely ideas! Thanks for visiting Happy Hearts & Homes, I hope to see you again this week.

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    1. Thanks, Lyndsey. They can really make a difference. Glad you visited!

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