Tuesday, October 31, 2017

Enjoy December Card Party

December is a lot more enjoyable if you don't try to cram Everything Christmas into 24 days.  That's why every year at the beginning of November, I host an online card party called Enjoy December.


What's an online card party?!

It's a time to set aside on your calendar to create cards, letters, return address labels, etc., digitally using Heritage Makers.  The Enjoy December Card Party lasts all day.  You choose an hour or two --whatever fits into your schedule-- to create your greetings.  (There are LOTS of different sizes and styles to choose from, including some creative options like tri-fold brochures and flyers, plus pop-out cards and die cut cards!)






How do I attend?

There are 3 things you need to do BEFORE the Card Party.  They are listed here, but please know that if you are reading this post after the Card Party happens, you can do all this on your own at a convenient time for you!

1.  RSVP "yes" in the online Card Party.  It's a Facebook event, but it's public, so you don't even have to have a Facebook account to see what's going on there.  (If you don't have a Facebook account, you won't be able to post anything in the party, but that certainly doesn't keep you from attending, seeing what's posted, or creating your cards!)  You can find this year's {Enjoy December Card Party by clicking right here}.

2.  Look through all the posts at the Card Party and choose what kind of greetings you'd like to send this year.  You'll find all sorts of different Christmas (or other holiday) greetings in lots of price ranges and styles.  There is also a tutorial video posted there, too, if you're new to creating cards/greetings with Heritage Makers.  There are posts about Large Order Discounts and Direct Shipping, too.  All the information you need to attend the Cary Party is at the Facebook event in the posts.

3.  One of the posts in the Card Party on Facebook tells you how to set up your Heritage Makers account if you don't already have one.  The same information can be found {here}.  This is a big step before the Card Party so that you're ready to go when the Party starts.

What do I do AT the Card Party?

1.  Login to your Heritage Makers account.

2.  Open another tab in your internet browser.  Go to the Facebook event, Enjoy December Card Party.  It will be in your "events" (calendar) since you RSVPed.  Check in by posting "hello" and tell us what you're going to be working on.  Feel free to ask questions if you have them, too. 

3.  Go back to your Heritage Makers account.  Start your project--whether it's a traditional card, a Christmas letter from a flyer, matching return address labels, etc.  You can start with a template and edit at will, or you can start with a blank project.  If you're new to Heritage Makers, the tutorial video will help acquaint you with the Studio software you'll be using.  

Next, POST!!  Post in the Facebook event!  Post questions if you have them, post screenshots of what you're working on, and post your progress so we can all celebrate.  It's really just fun to see what everyone else is doing, get ideas, and get this checked off your to-do list way early!

LAST:  You'll place your order for your cards whenever you're ready.  Click "ready to publish" at the upper left and follow the instructions.  Your cards/letters/labels will be shipped to your door in about 7-10 business days.  If you choose the Direct Ship option (which is detailed in the Facebook event, too), you can do that any time you like as well.



It's SO GREAT to get cards behind you right at the beginning of November so that you can ENJOY DECEMBER!

Friday, October 27, 2017

How Knowing Family Stories Helps Kids Cope

Family stories (the building blocks of a family history) are beneficial to kids for many reasons.  In addition to helping their self-esteem, providing a sense of belonging, and {keeping entitlement in check}family stories help kids cope.  The world around us is a wonderful place that can be difficult at the same time.  Kids have to cope with stresses that just didn’t exist 20 years ago.  Researchers have found that one of the best sources of strength and resilience for kids is knowing their family history.


At {Emory University, two psychologists} developed a “Do You Know” scale to measure how much kids knew about their family.  {Questions} included such things as “Do you know how your parents met?” and “Do you know where your parents went to school?”

The study concluded that teenagers who knew their family stories showed “higher levels of emotional well-being, and also higher levels of identity achievement.”  The research showed that family stories provide a sense of identity and help kids understand who they are and where they belong.  This leads to greater coping skills when kids are faced with problems, upsets, and disappointments.


Other research backs up these findings.  {Bruce Feiler’s} concludes:
"The most important thing you can do may be the easiest of all. Tell your children the story of their family. Children who know more about their parents, grandparents, and other relatives – both their ups and their downs – have higher self-esteem and greater confidence to confront their own challenges. Researchers have found that knowing more about family history is the single biggest predictor of a child’s emotional well-being."
I have had some experience with this myself.

When my mother was diagnosed with stage 4 breast cancer, her doctors gave her 3-5 years.  Even with aggressive chemotherapy treatments, she passed away seven months later, having just begun the second round of chemo.  My little niece was a few months away from her second birthday at the time.  My brother and sister-in-law (her parents) mourned not only the loss of my mom but the loss of their little girl’s grandma.  They were saddened that my niece would never really get to know her grandma.

Based mostly on my brother and sister-in-law’s concerns, I decided to create a {board book} for my niece about my mom.  The book, I thought, would give her a way to get to know her grandma.  I have to say, it was pretty hard to try to write about my mom’s life in toddler language.  I didn’t know how exactly to summarize such a full and productive life.  

Finally, the thought came to me that I could write the book with a “what Grandma loved” theme.


I wrote about the things that my mom loved doing, things she was passionate about, and things she adored.  Of course, one of the things she loved the very most was her grandchildren.  On that page, I added photos of my niece with my mom as well as photos of my niece with her other cousins–people she DOES remember.  My mom still loves my niece from heaven, and that’s so important for my niece to remember.


It’s been over a year now since I gave my niece the “Grandma Loves Me” book.  You may remember me sharing this book on a #familyhistoryfriday in June at the {HealingFrom Grief Through Family Stories} post.  I recently found out firsthand the impact this little book had.

A few months ago, I was visiting my brother and sister-in-law.  My niece gave me the grand tour of her house.  As I stood at the doorway to her bedroom, she ran in front of me to grab the book she had spotted on her bed.  She yelled excitedly, “That’s my grommaw in heaven!!”  She was so thrilled to be able to introduce me to her Grandma in heaven!  I sat on her bed while she climbed into my lap so we could read “Grandma Loves Me.”  She’s three years old and doesn’t realize that I made the book, or that she was telling me about my own mother.  I was completely overcome.  This little girl knows her grommaw in heaven, and she knows she is loved from heaven.

Although my niece was too young to have to really cope with the loss of her grandma like the rest of our family, family stories help us all.  Connecting with our history, our family, and our stories provides strength and coping skills because we know we belong.  Some day, my niece will wish she remembered my mom.  She will wish she had more time with her grandma.  But she knows her grandma, and they are connected, because she knows stories about her grandma.


Take some time to tell family stories, and then take some time to {record them} so they’re accessible and not forgotten.  The stresses kids go through every day make them need their family connections more than ever.  Tell family stories is one of the simplest, yet most powerful, things we can do for our kids.  

If you’re like me, you might not feel like you get much right as a parent, but trust me:  If you’re {telling family stories, you can be certain you’re doing at least one thing right.}

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This post was originally published at www.livegrowgive.org on October 27, 2017, by Jennifer Wise.  Read more #familyhistoryfriday posts by clicking the hashtag below next to Labels.

Tuesday, October 24, 2017

digital DIY wedding: table cards, favors, and bridesmaid gifts (part 2)

(This is part 2 of digital DIY wedding ideas.  See {last week's post} for information as well as ideas for save the date, invitations, and programs.)


Between last week's post and today's, I'm honestly just scratching the surface of what Heritage Makers can bring to your wedding, reception, dinner, or open house!


See the sign-in book, the wedding album, the cupcake wraps, and the "carry-out" sticker?

SO MANY CREATIVE, PERSONAL POSSIBILITIES!  I love it!

Today I want to show you three.  So let's get started.

TABLE CARDS
Also called "table tents," these can be made from a 12x12 scrap page.  Obviously, these can match your wedding colors and your whole theme.  I know someone who had a burlap and lace theme and found the most darling burlap and lace digital art in the Heritage Makers Studio program.  It was perfect.  (If you missed last week's post, be sure you read it.  I mention using Studio and how it includes tons of digital art.)

I suggest starting with a template in the Template Gallery, just because it's already measured for you.  Then just replace the artwork, names, etc.  (Check out the "how to get started" tab at the top of this blog for instructions on using Studio.)


There's one design idea.  Here's another. 


When you submit it for printing, be sure you get the LITE option.  It's cheaper than the regular, thick scrapbook pages, yes, but it just folds a lot easier.

After you get the pages in the mail, cut the squares apart.


Then fold in half.  Done!


The lite version of the 12x12 scrap page is around $3.  Done this way, you get 16 place cards.  They stand 3" wide and 1 1/2" tall when folded.

FAVORS (and regular address labels)
This is one of my favorite things to do with Heritage Makers!!  The regular address labels from Heritage Makers are obviously fantastic to use as address labels.  You could even put a photo on them instead of the monogram.
 

But truth be told, the coolest, most impressive thing you can do with these labels is make chocolate favors out of them!


They wrap perfectly around Hershey Nuggets!  Get ready for your jaw to drop.



Address labels come in a set of 54 for about $3.  Create them however you like in your Heritage Makers account, then head off to Target and buy Hershey Nuggets!



Here are both styles (one with the monogram, one with the photo) together.  How perfect is this?


If you'd like, I have made a video tutorial on exactly how to make these little chocolate favors that you can watch.  It's a step-by-step guide, from making them in Heritage Makers Studio to actually peeling the labels off and wrapping them around the chocolates.

BRIDESMAID GIFTS
There are honestly too many ideas to list them all here, but I'll give you a couple.

First, you could create a sweet Bridesmaid Book.  This is an 8x8 softbound book, but there are hardbound and wirebound books of all sizes.  (See www.heritagemakers.com/jenniferwise and click "products" then "storybooks."  You'll find sizes, specs, and prices.)

These are obviously very personal, and not your run-of-the-mill online photo book.  You can see all the pages in this book here, but remember that you aren't limited to any specific style, color, or design--even if you use a template.  I talked about that on last week's post.

Another idea is a keepsake mug.


These obviously don't have photos on them, but you can definitely add them.  Here's the one that says "bridesmaid" (instead of "maid of honor"):  http://www.heritagemakers.com/gallery/#/t/143723  There are even "mother of the bride," "mother of the groom," and "flower girl" mugs.  Of course, you can make your own design with your own wedding colors, too.  This is just an example.

To explore more options, go to www.heritagemakers.com/jenniferwise and click the "template gallery" link at the upper right.  Select the "wedding" option and find hundreds of ideas for creating your own wedding invitations, save-the-dates, favors, gifts, keepsakes, table decor, thank you cards, sign-in books, wedding albums, bridal shower ideas, and much more. Everything in Heritage Makers is fully customizable AND highest quality, so it's a win-win all around.  

It's a very special way to make your Special Day just that much more special!

Friday, October 20, 2017

Recording Your Kids' Stories

Everyone has a story.  Old or young, everyone’s life story is worth preserving and sharing.  We learn from our own stories.  Story is a common theme here on #familyhistoryfriday — {the benefits}of family stories, what your {family’s history has to do with your everyday life}, using {keepsakes} to tell family stories, {healing from grief} through family stories, {building self-esteem} through family stories, and more.  

But have you ever thought about recording your kids’ stories?  Their stories as kids are the foundation of their life stories.  Plus, kids' own stories are validating.  Remember as a kid when you wanted to be famous?  Telling a child’s story makes him or her feel famous.  Putting her own picture on the front of a {storybook} or keeping a journal or history that he can go back and read is a true and lasting gift.


To tell your kids' stories, just start with what you know.  When my kids were babies, I had a little page in their baby books where I would keep track of their “firsts”.  It was pretty easy to make a note of growth and monumental achievements when I was with them all the time.  I made another page so I could write their “personal history”–it was like writing in their journal for them.  I had a new personal history page for each year.  I wrote things such as the funny way they pronounced words and bits of their personalities I could easily see (like being helpful or organized).  I tried to write a few sentences every month.

If you are past the baby stage, you can still start with what you know.  It’s important to have a written record of what you know about them.  Especially in teenage years, people often lose sight of their own selves.  Tell your child {in a letter or book}:  “This is what I know about you.”

When I was 15 years old, my best friend’s mom died.  She left behind 7 children, ages 1-17.  It was as devastating as it sounds.  But my best friend’s mother also left behind letters she had written for each of her children.  They had something from her to keep with them.  This is something all of us can do for our children.  Start with what you know about them–things they may not see or remember or appreciate.  You never know how meaningful it can be right now on a hard day or how much they may depend on it in the future.

wirebound flipbook made {here}
"I'm a V.I.P" board book made {here}
After you write what you know, write what they know.


I was a natural journal-writer (literally from the time I could write), but a lot of people I know aren’t.  If your children keep journals, they are not only preserving their own story but they are also giving themselves something to look back at and learn from.  That’s honestly half the value of a written record.  Yes, someone in the future may read it, but most of all {you will be able to learn from it}Children benefit from looking back at their own experiences, seeing their growth, being grateful, and learning from what they’ve done.

When my kids were younger, I encouraged them to pull out their journals on Sunday afternoons and just write a little something each week.  If your kids don’t enjoy writing or are too young, there are some great ideas out there for journaling prompts.  I personally loved the resource from Nina over at Sleeping Should Be Easy.  She has put together 18 fantastic questions to ask instead of the usual “How was school?” since it’s most often answered with “good.”  You can find her {18 questions at this link}.  In addition to being useful every day, they would be a great start to writing your child’s story.


Here are a couple of prompts that can help you tell your child’s story, too.
As kids get older, it can be harder to get much out of “How was your day?”-type questions.  I find I am a pretty good conversationalist as long as someone else starts the conversation.  That doesn’t work particularly well with teenagers.  For me, having some go-to conversation starters really helps.  The friendly but probing questions are intended to create thoughtful responses.  I like {these questions to get your kid talking}.

A few years ago at a church women’s meeting, I was given a jar of journaling prompts.  Not long after that, I decided they would make great conversation starters!  So I made this deck of playing cards with all those questions on it.  


The *deck of cards actually stays on our kitchen table with the salt and pepper and napkins!  When the conversation isn’t flowing so well at the dinner table, I open the box and read a question.  We just go around the table with our answers.  Sometimes these lead to longer conversations, and sometimes they don’t, but we talk.  We interact and get to know each other a little better.  Conversation starters are another good way to tell your child’s story. 

*The Dinner Conversation cards can be personalized and ordered {here} by clicking “template gallery” at the upper right, then entering 77986 (the template number) in the search field.  Cards have a high gloss finish and rounded corners.  Similar products are templates 113284, 126365, and 78253. More information about creating a project like this is {here}.


When kids connect with their own selves and their own stories, they own their history and learn about themselves.  This creates a stronger sense of self.  It’s empowering.  Kids need to be encouraged, told what they’re good at, and develop a sense of worth.  Recording their own stories, thoughts, experiences, and feelings is a simple way to do this that can have lasting impact.


The Board Book shown above can be personalized and ordered {here} by clicking “template gallery” then entering 141038 (the template number) in the search field.  A similar book is template 141230.   More information about creating a project like this is {here}.

Giving your children their own stories sets them on their way to preserving their own stories in the future.  They can connect with their own selves and their family and the world around them in ways they don’t get from electronics or peers.  Real family connections make all the difference.

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This post was originally published at www.livegrowgive.org on October 20, 2017, by Jennifer Wise.  You'll find more #familyhistoryfriday posts in this series by clicking the hashtag below next to Labels.

Tuesday, October 17, 2017

digital DIY wedding: save the date, invitations, and programs (part 1)

Many people are looking for ways to keep costs down as they plan a wedding.  If you haven't yet seen the creative options for digital DIY wedding items you can get from Heritage Makers, you are in for a treat! 

Sometimes, DIY means cheaper materials, but I love how Heritage Makers products are always high in quality without being expensive.


I have a bridal fair coming up, so I've ordered a few products from the Heritage Makers Template Gallery.  I haven't changed anything in the templates like you normally would when making something like this, so these photos are straight from the gallery.

When we're talking about templates, though, keep in mind these three fantastic things about Heritage Makers:
  1. There are 200,000+ pieces of digital art included with Heritage Makers.  You get access to backgrounds, word art, buttons, hearts, swirls, flowers, alphabets, and more.  You don't have to go searching for cute flowers to put on your wedding invitations or return address labels.  Everything is included in Heritage Makers Studio (where you make your projects or edit an already-created template).   
  2. Even templates are FULLY EDITABLE.  That means if you love the template the way it is, great.  Just change the names and dates and you're done.  BUT if you find a template that is pretty close to what you want but you'd like to change the backgrounds to your wedding colors or take off the flowers/buttons/hearts, YOU CAN.  Heritage Makers Studio allows you to change, swap, move, or delete any element.  Studio is a drag-and-drop system, similar to Publisher, Photoshop, and Canva.  Move anything anywhere.  Get exactly what you want.
  3. You don't have to use a template.  You can create from a "blank slate," placing text and photos and the included digital art anywhere.  You're only paying for the item you're publishing, so there are no limits on text or photos or how much digital art you use.  I'll say it again:  Get exactly what you want!
Today I want to share with you some creative ideas for wedding invitations, programs, and save-the-dates.  There are plenty of traditional options, but I'll show a few "think outside the box" ones, too.  Although I'll show several different styles, remember that you can make everything coordinate!!

Note:  Some items I'll show you (like programs) are straightforward to make in the Heritage Makers program.  You may have questions on others that are more DIY (like the "save the date" lip balms that need to be cut).  My contact information is at the "contact me" tab at the top of this blog.  I'm always happy to answer questions and help you come away with the PERFECT thing!  So ASK.  To make anything you see here, follow the "how to get started" steps in the tab at the top of this blog.  I do also hire out, if you prefer, for $35/hour.  I've been loving and using Heritage Makers for over 12 years, so I'm pretty fast.  :)

SAVE THE DATE
I love this clever idea to save the date.  These are Heritage Makers Large Address Labels.  Each label makes two stickers to wrap around lip balm!




Can you stand how cute this is?  One set includes 12 labels, but for the lip balms you actually make 2 per label so you'll get 24.  A set of 12 labels is about $4.

A traditional save the date card looks extra professional from Heritage Makers, I think.  This size is called a Photo Card.  It's 4x8 (and can be portrait or landscape orientation), and comes with an envelope.  They're nice, thick paper (feels more like a card than just a big photo). 

Photo Cards are around $1 each but are {discounted} when you order more than 25, with the discount increasing the more cards you order. (Check that link for specifics.)

Another really fun idea for save the date "cards" is this one.  The cards are actually made from a deck of playing cards!  So these little guys are the size of a standard playing card.  You could send them as-is in the mail, or punch a hole in the corner and tie with ribbon to some sort of gift or treat.


The picture of the couple is on one side of the card and the "forever and always" is the other side of the card.  You can see them here in the plastic case that the playing card decks come in.  Playing card decks come in a set of 54 for about $17, but you can also add individual cards if you like for around 35 cents each.

INVITATIONS
Regular invitations are double-sided.  They come with envelopes.  The 4x6 version is about $1.80 and the 5x7 version is about $2, but the {volume discounts} I mentioned previously save you 20-40%.


Your invitations can be landscape or portrait orientation.


You can also get creative with Heritage Makers Invitations.  Use them for an RSVP!


This particular template has two RSVPs on each Invitation, so you just cut them in half and mail them out with your regular wedding invitation.


(And you can delete that red dotted line before printing, if you want.)

One of my favorite options for invitations, though, is the tri-fold brochure.  This is the only one currently in the Template Gallery, but I think there is a lot of potential for this!  I love how impressive and different it is, but I also love that it's a cheaper option than the traditional invitations shown above.

Tri-fold brochures come in a pack of 20 for about $15.  Open the package and fold in thirds!


This is the back of this particular template--so pretty.


However, if you want to, you can just fold these babies up, tape them shut, and put a stamp right on them!  You would want to make one panel so that you could put an address, return address, and stamp on it.  I've made tri-fold brochures and sent them in the mail quite a few times, both for business and personal use (Christmas cards).  You can see what mine look like with the panel for mailing {by clicking right here}.

PROGRAMS
The 4x8 Photo Cards I introduced you to at the beginning make lovely programs as well.



You could certainly add a photo to the program if you like.

I'll have more ideas for you next week, including unforgettable favors, table decor, and bridesmaid gift ideas!  See you then!