Family history sometimes gets a
bad rap. It can be viewed as one of those hobbies people pick up when
they’re old and don’t have anything else to do. This reputation is
unfortunate because the fact is that we all need our history.
We all need
our stories, and we all need our family stories. Stories connect us, give
us strength, and help us realize our place not only in the world but in OUR
little world of influence. What would change if you wrote down your own
story? What would you learn if you wrote down your family’s story?
Today for #familyhistoryfriday we will look at a few ideas to get inspired about family stories.
Stories
Matter
I’ve
always been a journaler and photo-preserver. Writing things down helps me
get in touch with myself, sort through how I feel, and learn from and
appreciate my experiences. As I’ve made this my actual business in recent
years, one of the things I’ve been amazed at is that there’s been research done
on the effect that knowing family stories has on kids. It’s quite
remarkable! Family stories aren’t just warm fuzzies that people talk
about at reunions. They’re the experiences that make us who we are.
Knowing that Grandpa did a hard thing gives you courage. Hearing the
funny story of Christmas 1969 helps you realize you should laugh at yourself a
little more.
Remembering
is great, but since memory fades, it’s so much better to write the
stories! How, then, do you go about creating the family stories?
Preserving
and Sharing Family Stories
Just
like your family, and just like your story, the way you preserve and then share
your family stories can be different from someone else’s. The one thing
that matters is that you do it.
Hand-writing something in a notebook and
making copies for family members works. Typing something in a computer
document and sharing with the family works, too. (Just don't save it on the computer and assume people will know it's there, know where to find it, or be able to access it.)
My favorite way to preserve
and share family stories is through {storybooks}, but there are other ways, too.
I
like the personal, special touch that a family storybook has. This is one
of the first ones I ever created,
and what I loved about it was the photos and the simplicity. There’s a
photo of each of my ancestors as far back as photos go (or as far back as we
have them), and I wrote a one-page introduction to each of those people.
My main goal was to have my children be able to digest the information easily
(as opposed to a 200-page life history).
My secondary goal was to let my
kids put faces with names and to connect with their ancestors. If
they could say, “Oh, Great-Great Grandpa loved reading, and so do I!” or “Wow,
how cool that they lived on a farm,” I felt like I had accomplished
something.
Other
Creative Ways to Share Family Stories
Although
I do love my family history storybooks, there are a lot of other ways to
preserve and share family stories.
What if you don’t really have a whole
story, or what if you just want to preserve and share something Mom always used
to say? It’s fun to have some variety.
What about family matching
card games or Grandma’s quote on a lovely canvas in your kitchen? How about
cookbooks to capture your family’s history through
recipes?
Read more about these fantastic out-of-the-box ideas:
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This 12x12 gallery-wrapped canvas can be personalized {here}. |
Family
Stories Are For You
Sometimes
we feel so far removed from people who didn’t own a car or farmed their own
food. What can we possibly learn from them or from their
experience? Far more than you might think,
I promise!
Take some time to talk to your parents or
aunts and uncles. Talk to your grandparents if you can. Ask about
their parents and grandparents.
The things they remember and
know and have learned from life can strengthen yours!
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post was originally published at www.livegrowgive.org on August 3, 2018, by Jennifer
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